Should i go with my heart!?

say you and your loved one break up for about 3 weeks, then you tell your shared friends that you are moving on. Then you find out from one of your friends that he has been asking about you every week, and that he has put on weight and isnt himself. Then out of the blue he calls you and needs to talk. Now yall are seeing eachother again(you talk about 3 times a week and see eachother about 2 times week, yall do everything you did before and you are soo happy when your with eachother) then you find out he still has all of your love letter/lil notes and the first flower you ever gave him,plus his momma still has your pic. on her wall. He tells you that he doesnt want anyother girl but he cant be in a relationship right now(i know that he cant be in one,thats true,if u knew what all he has to do.U know he cares about you cause he always makes sure your ok, and when my car broke down in our winter storm he came and fixed it. I think we will be 2gether again, do u?

Should i go with my heart!?
The bottom line is that he clearly told you he cannot be in a relationship with you right now.You must move on at least for now.If you are meant to end up together in the future,life will bring you together.Do not put yourself in a situation where you could end up getting hurt. He needs to make a decision,either he wants to make room in his life for you or not.And if the answer is no,then you need to use this time to explore other possibilities.He must be understanding of this, since he is not offering you anything secure.Do not allow yourself to play this game.You can not entertain him at his convenience,That isn't fair to you.Remember a relationship is a two way street and if he really cares for you he will find his way back into your life.
Reply:well, he still like you???so, why don't you give him a chance and some space..........
Reply:Know why your head is placed above your heart? SO you'll be able to come uip with more sound decisions in life. To me it is more practical to look at the pros and cons of that kind of a relationship that you have right now. Ask yourself if it is ok for you to wait 4 years. If you're sure that things will be the same from today until he decides to marry you, then by all means give it another chance. If there's one hind of a doubt, I say you put a stop to it as early as now and find someone who will love you the way you love him.
Reply:Maybe he's going through some things that he needs to work through. Give him time and be there for him.





Good luck to you! Sounds like true love!
Reply:sometimes u have to listien to you're heart and let it guide us to the right direction, if he called u out of the blue that means he is thinking of u, and that is a good sign, but the best advice olny can come from you're heart, good luck to u.
Reply:Um...yes! He's a "keeper."
Reply:pray, and ask god, he will give you an answer far better than anyone online, or even you can give youself
Reply:Yes
Reply:If you know the reason why he can't be in a relationship right now and you know it's true, wait for him. If you know he's the one, wait. There's nothing worse than losing the love of your life, and I personally know thats true. He seems like he's the one for you, and the question is are you willing to wait for him? If you really love him, you will.
Reply:There is love there in both your hearts you can make this a great mariage.





Remember it takes more then love to make a marriage work.





there is also commitment, deciding who will do what in the marriage, who is the leader. You need to plan your mariage past the wedding day.
Reply:I'm telling you this, do not let this guy go!! He seems to be a sincere and loyal person, give him a lil break, but also maybe ask him, roughly how long you will have to wait!
Reply:no sounds like trouble to me
Reply:well the same thing happend to me my ex came back to me after seven months that was the first time and then it only lasted three months and then we broke up again and for the second time which again it lasted another three months and the he come back for a third time which also lasted three months and then we got back for a forth time which only lasted a week . the last he and i where toghther was for the fifth time which was six months ago in september 2005 .


and so i would tell you to forget it he is not worth it do not give him any more chances he will only hurt you again


Shelley
Reply:Sounds to me the two of you are in love.You are happy when you are together.you are talking %26amp;seeing each other I say give it some time and you will be together again
Reply:yes
Reply:always follow your deepest instinct..if you feel as though you can accept his conditions then you should..if not move on..
Reply:you are going to have to give it time. mabie he needs this break, who know what he does at night when he's by himself. who knows what he's thinking. give it time it'll all work out.
Reply:I would go with my heart! If you do not take a chance you will never know if it is the one or not, and you will never learn anything from it if it doesn't work out. I would be cautious as to why he cannot be in a relationship and what made him walk away for three weeks. If you both are young and this is your first love be careful and just take one step at a time and take it day by day, just do as you are and wait on getting married and getting involved in a LTR.
Reply:You should always follow your heart. It might seem like your going down the wrong path, but you will never know unless you try. My motto is Always follow your heart.



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