OMG! Mom wont leave me alone!?

omg, shes this type of freaky person who wants everything to be, pretty, shiney, and PERFECT!! She comes in every single day in my room. Cleans like a maniac. She cleans day in and day out, and complains. I mean? she also goes in my room. Sometimes when she cleans my room, she cleans it to the point, i think is shiney... but i coulnt find certain things. When my room is the way it is, i feel comfortable, and no where everything is. But when she cleans it, is a different sotry. I countlessly told her, to stop cleaning my room. My room isnt those trashy room, but it has a certain things she doesnt like. So its my room. I mean last time me and my friend, played modelling, but there was this white wall in my room, so we just pushed aside the flower vase, with the flowers away, but yes we didnt put it back in the right place, but it didnt bother me? Sometimes i have like a ntoebook, or a sweater on the floor, or maybe a cup or two, on my table, but it doesnt bug me, if i wanted to,

OMG! Mom wont leave me alone!?
Show some humility. OMG, I had to clean my own room for christ sakes. Mama nanny service didnt work for me.
Reply:Have a heart to heart talk with your mom. Tell her you love her and thank her for wanting your room to be clean and shiney. She does this because she loves you and she likes things this way. Ask her to let you start doing it. Remind her that it won't ever be as perfect as she can make it, but ask her what would be acceptable to her. Ask her to give you the freedom to learn how to do this on your own because you are growing up and need to learn how to do this on your own. Again, thank her for loving you enough to want to do this for you. Also, ask her if she will be willing to give you advice on "organizing the room" if you need her help.
Reply:make ur room soooo messy that shell just give up!





or maybye ur mom is just reeeallly bored, u could find her a new hobby





if u have to hide something, hide it at a freinds house :)
Reply:I understand your frustration.





Borrow a book from the library about Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder. It will help you to understand her behavior. When you're done reading it, you might talk to her about what you learned.





On some level she is probably aware of her compulsive cleaning. It is a common problem. She may need talk therapy or medication.





Hope things work out for you. :)
Reply:Hey! So i am 18 and my mom is just almost as bad. The thing is I am a neat freak! My room is mostly clean i might leave something out like when i am late for school and ya know a cup some where. She comes in and moves my stuff and it used to drive me insane! If you need to hide stuff this is what i do, because i am 18 and i have a boyfriend see where i am going? ok. If you have to hide stuff go for the sock drawer hide stuff in socks haha! It might sound funny but it works! You need to sit down with her and explain to her that if she ever expects you to become a mature and responsible adult she needs to give you your space or when you are in the real world you won't be able to function. Yeah that might be a little extreme but it will open her eyes to her cleaning frenzy! Just try and explain to her that you are capable of cleaning, that your room is your sactuary your place to calm down and relax after a long day of school and practice and ya know.. stuff that if you feel uncomfortable in your own room, its like being uncomfortable in your own skin. haha hey im just trying to help! Good luck babe!
Reply:whoa.


take a minute. stop, and breathe; before you find yourself acting and reacting the same way as the source that helped you get there. im not sure what age you are, but regardless of age, as your mom may see it, 'her house her rules'. i didnt learn this until i was in college and had my own place, but as far as it goes with overprotective parents, it's better to opt with the whole theme of 'if you can't beat em, join em' (at least when theyre around). your mother sounds like a worrier, and that is a way of showing she cares, may it or not be the most appealing for you. things like cleaning your room checking up on you are just little signs to see that youre ok. but, this does get aggrivating i know. so, for your mothers own peace of mind, it would really help the Both of you if you showed her youre fine. start cleaning up your room the way she wants it, dont protest it, it sounds like your mother is the type of person who likes things her specific way, and if its something as insignificant as cleaning your room, just to shut her up and prevent many more arguments and tension, just do what she tells you with a smile. dont worry, youll have a car by 16 and able to pack your bags by 18 ;)


hope this helped


~peace and balance~
Reply:Turn 18, get a real job and move out.........................





You can then live anyway you want.





Cant find a real job? Join the Military......................



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