I guy asked me on a date and then i found out he had a girlfriend? and things have turned bad?

We had the date, i went to his place he made me dinner we kissed and he told me that hes really into me and has liked me since day one...it was quite a nice night..but he had pretty curtains and flower pictures on his wall which he said his mum put up to touch his place up. He even had one in his room, when he went to the toilet I checked his cupboard and discoverd girls clothes and girls items...so yea he has a girlfriend, I do really like the guy, Im just not much of a emotional person so i kept my mouth shut. When i saw him again at tafe I asked him more about his life...he had to tell a lot of lies to cover up that he had a girlfriend, he asked me out to dinner again. so I asked him if he has a girlfriend? he said no at first then why do you think that, then he said yes. so my feelings where im just this girl on the side that he wants to have a bit of fun with...but he says that isn%26#039;t the case and that he really likes me... He says he isn%26#039;t geting a long with his girlfriend and...

I guy asked me on a date and then i found out he had a girlfriend? and things have turned bad?
stop and think. right now you are what you, like most women, probably hate. the homewrecker. the other woman. and you ARE a diversion on the side. if things were bad enough that he wanted to go out with another girl, he should have broken up with her. he hasn%26#039;t, which means he probably isn%26#039;t going to. he%26#039;s a cheater. even IF he left her, which is highly unlikely, how would you trust him to not leave you? you couldn%26#039;t. and you would be in the same place as his girlfriend in a few years, a few arguments and out he goes to find a new girl. dump him, and do it fast. and then REALLY have nothing more to do with him, don%26#039;t look back. when he cries, what he%26#039;s really missing is his fun toy, not a real relationship. keep that in mind.
Reply:You should leave and also give him a chance for yourself and for him as well by wait to see if he settle down with his current gf and come back to you then you can accept him. If he can not then just forget him.
Reply:Do you have a gun?
Reply:if things were that bad, he would have already left her. he is dating you now, but when things get good with his girlfriend he will be back with her.


Do not let him play you


DO NOT EVEN GET INTO IT. don%26#039;t even, because if you only went out once or twice it isn%26#039;t deep, you can get over him NOW. but if you deal with it and stay you will be stuck forever. and even if he finally did leave the girlfriennd, you would be so insecure when you two start o have problems, because look at what he is doing to his current girlfriend.
Reply:wow that was a long one!





he%26#039;s just playing you. probably wants to have sex with you on the secong date. if he really wants you, he has to be free to do so. so he has to leave the other girl. but since he doesn%26#039;t want to, then you know what he really wants.





the crying bit is all acting for me.
Reply:good guys dont lie. that should be all you need to know.
Reply:Is that a guy you%26#039;d want to be with? Who knows, when your with him, some other girl might come along and he%26#039;ll take the chance to do that same...If he was really into you...He would have broken up with his g/f, instead of cheating on her. Id say hes a bad peanut...stay away...
Reply:im not going to read all that but the answer is obviously leave him alone to anyone who sees your situation
Reply:wow that is honestly the longest question i%26#039;ve ever read.. HOWEVER, i know its hard, but obviously he has a relationship going, a probably pretty serious relationship and i think that may be you should let him work out whatever he needs to work out with the girl hes already committed to. and yea that sucks for you... but if its meant to be its meant to be and in the meantime maybe you can find someone a little more available to date and hang out with?
Reply:If he didn%26#039;t want to be with the other girl and he wanted you then he probably would have left her by now.





Give him some time and maybe say he has so long to chose?





If nothing else you could just be friends and tell him to give you a call if things don%26#039;t work out.



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