Why are the girls of myspace so stuckup? Ladys help please.?

I realize they get many many messages from guys with nasty requests and all and they have to put up with a great deal of jerks out there with only one thing on there mind. I%26#039;m a good looking guy with a lot to offer(so I%26#039;m told). I send a very polite message with an invite to chat. I dont ask to be add to there friends list,that should be up to them. I%26#039;m not trying to hit on them,I%26#039;m not trying to get into there pants.I%26#039;m just trying to reach out and make a new friend.I get no responce from any of them and wound up deleteing my profile after a long time of being a wall flower with no friends. What can i do to solve this . Please help it%26#039;s very upsetting

Why are the girls of myspace so stuckup? Ladys help please.?
that depends on how you approach it. i realize you said you send a very polite message asking them to chat, but you don%26#039;t say exactly what that message entails. granted people are more willing to talk to girls, this approach always works for me: find something that you have in common and mention it. say you two like the same band, send a message saying %26quot;i see you like so and so, have you ever seen them in concert%26quot;, or find a movie you both like and say %26quot;how funny was talladega nights when he said i am coming for you wicky bubby%26quot;. girls can appreciate a humorous approach that%26#039;s completely non-sexual and doesn%26#039;t pressure them in any way at all. until they start talking back to you, don%26#039;t even mention how beautiful/sexy/sweet/cute/hot they seem to you. keep it light and keep it interesting and people will definitely reply back to you. also, it helps to have a lot of information about yourself up on your page. even if you%26#039;re shy, really get creative with your page and tell people a bit about yourself. profiles with very little information can come across as shady.





ps-this may seem kind of harsh, but a lot of girls are put off by the types of guys that mention anime, star wars, or anything of that nature all over their page. i know it seems kind of cruel but their thinking is that if he spends all of his time on that, what else does he do?



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