Women have you ever had a successful relationship...when you actively initially pusued the man??

could you tell me about it??? how did you pursue him?





I mean people say men have to lead but we are in 2007 right women equal opportunities so surely there have been some cases where the woman has chased the man and it has worked can still be in the victorian era where woman were wall flowers till a man approached?

Women have you ever had a successful relationship...when you actively initially pusued the man??
Yes, I am happily married to him! I found out he was a big hockey fan, I bought NHL tickets, and invited him to the game. Learned as much as I could about the game, and started to go to his games. I guess long story short - find out what his interests are and go from there - gives you plenty to talk about and that%26#039;s a great start.
Reply:I have never pursued a man. It goes against biological instinct for a woman to pursue a man. Most men will think less of her.
Reply:my best relationships are when i dont pursue the guy.. for whatever reason it seems that guys feel its too pushy or %26quot;desperate%26quot; if a girl goes after them... dont ask me why
Reply:i always wait for the guy to pursue me because i don%26#039;t want to seem too needy or pushy...we are independent and self-sufficient as women
Reply:I can%26#039;t say I *actively* pursued my man, but the pursusal has been about equal for both of us throughout our relationship. Soon after we had met, he told me he would call and didn%26#039;t for three days. We had already had sex, so I was feeling angry and used. I called him up one night and asked him what the deal was. Was he bored with me already? An older man out for a quick, good time with a younger girl? I wanted to know, and told him I liked him but didn%26#039;t approve of his behavior. I really gave it to him, but turns out he had been sick and having trouble at work. To this day he tells me how much he respected me for having the guts to call him up and tell him how I felt. It impressed him, and he called me every day after and has been crazy about me ever since! So if you like him enough, definitely take the intiative--you never know!



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