...talked to an x say from a couple of years back and knwo he is doing great..wiht his now wife who cheated on him but he took back...hes a loving hubby and parent...sucssesfull and hard working..takes care of his stay at home wife and child...and REALIZE what a MISTAKE you made when you let him go ..to be with your now hubby...Who rearly ever takes care of you %26amp; ur sons every need.. whos to lazy to get a job..n rather stay at home with the baby wile you work ur *** off...who cheated 2 months after his 1st son was born..who drives your car b-cause he could never afort one...n never ever givers u a flower...a card... a massage....
I WISH I WOULD HAVE KNOWN...THEN WHAT I KNOW NOW.....
Im i the only 1 in this situation...(banging my head against the wall)?
Have you ever...(x regrets...) ......read on.....?
never had that problem
Reply:yes i have been in kinda the same situation. I am not with anyone but my ex is. he had drug problems when we were together and things got really bad and we divorced. Now he is with someone else. I have regrets of ltting him go. I have been really depressed over the whole thing and am now seeing a counselor
Reply:no u r not the only one there. lots have regrets about their exs... i would advise you still to try to find good things about your relationship and to stop thinking about what might have been..
Reply:Hm...my ex's are all still losers(bf's included here)...that is why they are ex's.
Sorry that the good one got away.
Reply:oh wow this sounds like a soap opera.... just focus on the positive things you got going on (im sure throught all that you can find at least one) and don't regret, regrets make you weaker and miserable, if you are so unhappy just get out of that relationship, you deserve better. and wish your ex the best. pluis you never know the grass is always greener on the other side, so you don't know how "happy" they are... just start building your own fullfilling life.
Reply:Honey it sounds like you learned that the grass is not greener on the otherside the hard way.If you are not happy in your marraige then why are you still there?Why are you with him if he cheated on you?
Reply:Just remeber and ex is and ex for a reason...
Reply:no........ many ppl also have the same things as u............
Reply:Wow girl. It sounds like you aren't very happy in your situation. Maybe you should examine dropping that extra weight of your husband if he isn't doing his part in the relationship. If you are already doing everything yourself anyway why stay if your aren't happy.
As hard as it is not to dwell on the bad decisions you have made, just know that regardless of how things look EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. I know it sounds crazy but I have learned that it is so true. The things that we go through help to form who we are.
Turn to God and let Him be everything you need. Let Him be your source of happiness and the other stuff will fall into place. You need to provide a loving and stable environment for you and for your precious children. Be thankful for what you have and move on. Don't focus on how happy others appear to be.
Good luck. You will be in my prayers!
Reply:well, they say what's gos around comes around.Now it's too late too look back. You should watch what you wish for because if things would have happened in a different way you would have never had you son. and I'm sure you love him very much, i bet he always puts a smile on your face when you are down. Everything happens for a reason look for all the good things in your life. look for the good things that you love your husband ,not only the bad things. It was not meant ex boyfriend and you to be together, he is happy right now and maybe he found the right person in life.i hope that you let go of the past because it's not good to down your self and your family because of your ex.Just be strong maybe the future has a better life for you and your family.
Reply:Bang your head away if that is what you get off on. Funny how you never saw any of your present hubby's "charm" when you were busy dumping the ex. And funny how you didn't see your ex's charm, when you were wooing #2. It just may be time for you to make a break, and STAY BY YOUR SELF until you know what the score is in life. WE all grow up one day or another, and it sounds as if you are being forced to do that right now. So get off by yourself with your kids and finish the job. Perhaps in a couple of years, you will not be looking back as much as you are looking forward...you are in a dead in "job" right now. Good luck
Reply:Wow, you sound like you have a track record of making the wrong decisions,...doesnt that bother you at all or do you see this?.........regrets?......regrets are ideas you have that keep you from moving on with your life in a successful fashion, if you want to have a great life?.......leave your regrets at your mom and dad's house and walk out into the real world and do something successful, you wont regret it.
Reply:And yet you girls say size doesn't matter.
Reply:We all have one thing in common, we all wish we knew back then what we know now. Don't beat yourself over that, Maybe your ex is the way he is because you let him go and if you had stayed with him he would've been a different person. Maybe if you leave your husband now he changes his ways and become better person for somebody else. Leave them both behind and find somebody who's in the same place you are. Unfortunately this is how life goes.
Reply:Fated?
Reply:Ha Ha - No Honey, your not the only one. You never know, that is why it is all a chance. If I only knew then what I know now?!?!
I do understand, however, for some reason you are where you are ment to be right now. We are not supposed to ask why be I do believe that for whatever its worth! I guess its made you a stronger person. Plus, maybe he wouldn't have been that way with you. You know? Its like we are different with different people? I look at it this way, if I wouldn't have done what I've done, my children wouldn't be the same as they are right now - I wouldn't change them for anything so...... there's your answer!! Good luck.
Reply:You have more things to contimplate on now...think forward-forget about what is now long gone!You're gonna be just fine...
Reply:if we all had a crystal ball, then there would be no need for this site...sorry your situation did not work out. and just so you know, everyone has regrets, whether they want to admit it or not!
Reply:Everything happens for a reason. There's some cosmic reason why you weren't supposed to be with him. Take responsibility for your life. If you're not happy, change things. Everyone deserves to be happy!!! If that means leaving your husband, so be it. Honey, I think it's past time to start putting YOU first! Take the conversation with your x as a wake up call. Best of luck to you!
Reply:Wow, you picked a real winner, eh? Should have thought a little harder before you had kids. Don't try to justify an affair because you are miserable about your choices. You children aren't "choices", and everything you do affects them. Remember that before you do something stupid. Shape up your husband before you jump to your ex. There was obviously some reason that you dumped him. (And it STILL applies even if you don't say what it is)
Reply:Why is it we always let the good men go. Maybe because of the stupidty we have. yes i know exacly what you mean.you need to leave the man your with now and get somone new and someone who want you for more than your body (You live and U learn trust me i kbnow honey!!!!!!!!!!) you cant get him back by=ut you came get your life straight. Stop thinking about what you could have had think about what your going to get. and the phase i wish i know then what i know now. you have to stop saying that you know he was a good man just not for you. god has made somone for everyone. But dont loook for them let them looke for you you just keep ya self looking good.
Reply:Are you for real I'd be long gone if that wasme...you only get one chance of life why live it miserably?
Reply:The grass is always greener....you only know what your ex told you, you don't honestly know that things are that great for him. One of your husband's ex's could run into him and he would tell her that same story. Don't be regretful, but if you really don't like your husband or feel that he isn't working to uphold his part of the marriage, get counseling or get out.
Reply:Focus on NOW and move forward. Regrets and focusing on the past will not create happiness for you.
Pay attention to your marriage. If it is bad... fix it or arrange to get out. Do it with integrity and love.
Then you can move on to another relationship if you choose too.
Reply:i, too, let a keeper go but it was for their wellbeing not for mine. i was screwed up from drinking and drugs and let them go(wife and 2 kids) to a better life. i figured their happiness was more important than my habit. anyway, leave the loser with your kids and get on with your life. if the good lord wants yall to hook-up it'll happen, if not maybe you'll meet someone who's better for you. you'll be away from the dead weight which is good for all of you
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Monday, August 3, 2009
Read this,if you miss someone?
• Every tear is a sign of brokenness, every silence is a sign of loneliness, every smile is a sign of kindness, every SMS is a sign of rememberance. Miss U!
• Your absence should be long enough so that somebody misses u, it shouldn't be so long that somebody finds out that how well he can do without u...!
• A raindrop may luk 2 small 2 eyes but sumwhere a thirsty flower await its fall. A sms may seem 2 small but sumwhere a heart remembers u when it receives ur sms. Keep SMS'ing.
• What makes a frindship special is the way each one remembers the other when they are apart. They miss the talks, the laughs n the time they spent together. Life changes, memories don't. I miss U.
• Message: * some text missing* Sender:* Name Missing * *Number Missing *Sent: * Date missing * Missing U a lot thats y everything is missing.
• As I watched the ants crawl up the wall, I noticed that no matter how busy they r, they still communicate with each other. Hope we'll be like them, in touch always.
• What makes some people dearer is not just the happiness that we feel when we meet them but the emptiness we feel when they are not around us. I Miss U!
• A simple Bye make us cry, A simple Joke make us laugh, simple Care make us fall in love. I hope my simple SMS make you think of me. I Miss U
• Memories play a confusing role. They make u laugh when u remember the time u cried together! But make u cry when u remember the time u laughed together.
• What makes some people Dearer? It's not just the happiness that u feel when u meet them but the pain u feel, when u miss them. Miss U
Read this,if you miss someone?
how sweet who are u missing right now
Reply:im missing my fiance too bad. i read your writing thats so nice.i just cried with it:(((((((((((((((((((((((((((... is sucks Report It
Reply:That is really sweet.
Reply:very nice
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• Your absence should be long enough so that somebody misses u, it shouldn't be so long that somebody finds out that how well he can do without u...!
• A raindrop may luk 2 small 2 eyes but sumwhere a thirsty flower await its fall. A sms may seem 2 small but sumwhere a heart remembers u when it receives ur sms. Keep SMS'ing.
• What makes a frindship special is the way each one remembers the other when they are apart. They miss the talks, the laughs n the time they spent together. Life changes, memories don't. I miss U.
• Message: * some text missing* Sender:* Name Missing * *Number Missing *Sent: * Date missing * Missing U a lot thats y everything is missing.
• As I watched the ants crawl up the wall, I noticed that no matter how busy they r, they still communicate with each other. Hope we'll be like them, in touch always.
• What makes some people dearer is not just the happiness that we feel when we meet them but the emptiness we feel when they are not around us. I Miss U!
• A simple Bye make us cry, A simple Joke make us laugh, simple Care make us fall in love. I hope my simple SMS make you think of me. I Miss U
• Memories play a confusing role. They make u laugh when u remember the time u cried together! But make u cry when u remember the time u laughed together.
• What makes some people Dearer? It's not just the happiness that u feel when u meet them but the pain u feel, when u miss them. Miss U
Read this,if you miss someone?
how sweet who are u missing right now
Reply:im missing my fiance too bad. i read your writing thats so nice.i just cried with it:(((((((((((((((((((((((((((... is sucks Report It
Reply:That is really sweet.
Reply:very nice
Reply:Deep , very Deep man.
Reply:Thanks. That was really nice.
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Reply:those are great. thanks for sharing!
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How do I take cuttings from Roseraie De L`hAY?
I have tried to buy one from garden centres but can`t get one. My neighbour has one in flower and says I can take a cutting, but they failed, please someone help, I want it as a deterant over a small wall (about 5 feet) high.
How do I take cuttings from Roseraie De L`hAY?
your cutting size should only be about 6 inches if longer they usally die trying to feed the cutting
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How do I take cuttings from Roseraie De L`hAY?
your cutting size should only be about 6 inches if longer they usally die trying to feed the cutting
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HIi guys, Do you find this funny?
In a Chicago hospital, a gentleman had made several attempts to
get into the men's restroom, but it had always been occupied.A nurse noticed his predicament.
Sir, she said "You may use the ladies room if promise not to touch any of the buttons on the wall."
He did what he needed to, and as he sat there he noticed the buttons he had promised not to touch. Each button was identified
by letters: WW, WA, PP, and a red one labelled ATR.
Who would know if he touched them? He couldn't resist. He pushed
WW. Warm water was sprayed gently upon his bottom. What a nice
feeling, he thought. Men restrooms don't have nice things like this.
Anticipating greater pleasure, he pushed the WA button. Warm air replaced the warm water, gently drying his underside.
When this stopped, he pushed the PP button.
A large powder puff caressed his bottom adding a fragile scent ofspring flower to his unbelievable
pleasure. The ladies restroom was more than a restroom, it is
tender loving pleasure. When the powder puff completed its
pleasure, he couldn't wait to push the ATR button which he knew would be supreme ecstasy.
Next thing he knew he opened his eyes, he was in a hospital bed, and a nurse was staring down at him.
"What happened?" he %26gt;%26gt;%26gt;exclaimed.
The last thing I remember was pushing the ATR button.
"The ATR button is an Automatic Tampon Remover. Your penis is under your pillow!
MEN NEVER LISTEN!!!
HIi guys, Do you find this funny?
ouch, horrible but funny
Reply:haha fantastic very funny indeed
Reply:lol.
but i've never seen buttons like that, so it doesn't really make sense.
Reply:CAN YOU SAY O*U*C*H MMMMMMMMMMMM MAN Why don't they ever listen! They'll sew it back on, remember the ______
__________Story on the NEWS!
Reply:i have to admit thats really funny
but really stupid who in the hell
would make a button like that?
Reply:Wow! nice one, this tells guys well, they dnt listen! and temtations too, funny too, aww.... i feel srry for that guy,
Reply:Ha Ha sad but true men never do listen
Reply:Ouch.
Reply:Too Long
Reply:NICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
Reply:what if a woman pressed the atr button but was sat to far forwerd maybe she had short legs or somet but would it stab up her brown eye and pull out a half digested plum.
Reply:WTF??? no not really. we are not like that. and why would the penis be underneath his pillow? I think they would at least try to re-attach it
Reply:pmls to funny
im still laughing now
Reply:i believe only ladies would understand this one!!! some men can be soooo stupid!!!
Reply:Ha Ha! Funny! 10/10! So true!
Reply:Bought a smile to my face
Reply:oh right
Reply:Good one.!!!
10/10.!!!
Reply:too much reading for me at the moment. next!
Reply:Its funny in a weird way...
Reply:i will tell that to my hubby!
Reply:yeah kind of
Reply:That is Sooooo old; it's funny how they keep going round, and round, and round, and round etc etc etc.
Reply:Heard it before.
Reply:That's about as funny as a broken condom on prom night.
Reply:LOL
Reply:That is hilarious
Good one
Reply:been on here before, getting stale now
Reply:LoL!! i love this one!! that's so funny!! good one! *wink*
Reply:The last time i heard than one i fell off my dinosaur laughing !!!
Laugh, i almost did !!
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get into the men's restroom, but it had always been occupied.A nurse noticed his predicament.
Sir, she said "You may use the ladies room if promise not to touch any of the buttons on the wall."
He did what he needed to, and as he sat there he noticed the buttons he had promised not to touch. Each button was identified
by letters: WW, WA, PP, and a red one labelled ATR.
Who would know if he touched them? He couldn't resist. He pushed
WW. Warm water was sprayed gently upon his bottom. What a nice
feeling, he thought. Men restrooms don't have nice things like this.
Anticipating greater pleasure, he pushed the WA button. Warm air replaced the warm water, gently drying his underside.
When this stopped, he pushed the PP button.
A large powder puff caressed his bottom adding a fragile scent ofspring flower to his unbelievable
pleasure. The ladies restroom was more than a restroom, it is
tender loving pleasure. When the powder puff completed its
pleasure, he couldn't wait to push the ATR button which he knew would be supreme ecstasy.
Next thing he knew he opened his eyes, he was in a hospital bed, and a nurse was staring down at him.
"What happened?" he %26gt;%26gt;%26gt;exclaimed.
The last thing I remember was pushing the ATR button.
"The ATR button is an Automatic Tampon Remover. Your penis is under your pillow!
MEN NEVER LISTEN!!!
HIi guys, Do you find this funny?
ouch, horrible but funny
Reply:haha fantastic very funny indeed
Reply:lol.
but i've never seen buttons like that, so it doesn't really make sense.
Reply:CAN YOU SAY O*U*C*H MMMMMMMMMMMM MAN Why don't they ever listen! They'll sew it back on, remember the ______
__________Story on the NEWS!
Reply:i have to admit thats really funny
but really stupid who in the hell
would make a button like that?
Reply:Wow! nice one, this tells guys well, they dnt listen! and temtations too, funny too, aww.... i feel srry for that guy,
Reply:Ha Ha sad but true men never do listen
Reply:Ouch.
Reply:Too Long
Reply:NICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
Reply:what if a woman pressed the atr button but was sat to far forwerd maybe she had short legs or somet but would it stab up her brown eye and pull out a half digested plum.
Reply:WTF??? no not really. we are not like that. and why would the penis be underneath his pillow? I think they would at least try to re-attach it
Reply:pmls to funny
im still laughing now
Reply:i believe only ladies would understand this one!!! some men can be soooo stupid!!!
Reply:Ha Ha! Funny! 10/10! So true!
Reply:Bought a smile to my face
Reply:oh right
Reply:Good one.!!!
10/10.!!!
Reply:too much reading for me at the moment. next!
Reply:Its funny in a weird way...
Reply:i will tell that to my hubby!
Reply:yeah kind of
Reply:That is Sooooo old; it's funny how they keep going round, and round, and round, and round etc etc etc.
Reply:Heard it before.
Reply:That's about as funny as a broken condom on prom night.
Reply:LOL
Reply:That is hilarious
Good one
Reply:been on here before, getting stale now
Reply:LoL!! i love this one!! that's so funny!! good one! *wink*
Reply:The last time i heard than one i fell off my dinosaur laughing !!!
Laugh, i almost did !!
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Have you ever...(x regrets...) ......read on.....?
...talked to an x say from a couple of years back and knwo he is doing great..wiht his now wife who cheated on him but he took back...hes a loving hubby and parent...sucssesfull and hard working..takes care of his stay at home wife and child...and REALIZE what a MISTAKE you made when you let him go ..to be with your now hubby...Who rearly ever takes care of you %26amp; ur sons every need.. whos to lazy to get a job..n rather stay at home with the baby wile you work ur *** off...who cheated 2 months after his 1st son was born..who drives your car b-cause he could never afort one...n never ever givers u a flower...a card... a massage....
I WISH I WOULD HAVE KNOWN...THEN WHAT I KNOW NOW.....
Im i the only 1 in this situation...(banging my head against the wall)?
Have you ever...(x regrets...) ......read on.....?
never had that problem
Reply:yes i have been in kinda the same situation. I am not with anyone but my ex is. he had drug problems when we were together and things got really bad and we divorced. Now he is with someone else. I have regrets of ltting him go. I have been really depressed over the whole thing and am now seeing a counselor
Reply:no u r not the only one there. lots have regrets about their exs... i would advise you still to try to find good things about your relationship and to stop thinking about what might have been..
Reply:Hm...my ex's are all still losers(bf's included here)...that is why they are ex's.
Sorry that the good one got away.
Reply:oh wow this sounds like a soap opera.... just focus on the positive things you got going on (im sure throught all that you can find at least one) and don't regret, regrets make you weaker and miserable, if you are so unhappy just get out of that relationship, you deserve better. and wish your ex the best. pluis you never know the grass is always greener on the other side, so you don't know how "happy" they are... just start building your own fullfilling life.
Reply:Honey it sounds like you learned that the grass is not greener on the otherside the hard way.If you are not happy in your marraige then why are you still there?Why are you with him if he cheated on you?
Reply:Just remeber and ex is and ex for a reason...
Reply:no........ many ppl also have the same things as u............
Reply:Wow girl. It sounds like you aren't very happy in your situation. Maybe you should examine dropping that extra weight of your husband if he isn't doing his part in the relationship. If you are already doing everything yourself anyway why stay if your aren't happy.
As hard as it is not to dwell on the bad decisions you have made, just know that regardless of how things look EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. I know it sounds crazy but I have learned that it is so true. The things that we go through help to form who we are.
Turn to God and let Him be everything you need. Let Him be your source of happiness and the other stuff will fall into place. You need to provide a loving and stable environment for you and for your precious children. Be thankful for what you have and move on. Don't focus on how happy others appear to be.
Good luck. You will be in my prayers!
Reply:well, they say what's gos around comes around.Now it's too late too look back. You should watch what you wish for because if things would have happened in a different way you would have never had you son. and I'm sure you love him very much, i bet he always puts a smile on your face when you are down. Everything happens for a reason look for all the good things in your life. look for the good things that you love your husband ,not only the bad things. It was not meant ex boyfriend and you to be together, he is happy right now and maybe he found the right person in life.i hope that you let go of the past because it's not good to down your self and your family because of your ex.Just be strong maybe the future has a better life for you and your family.
Reply:Bang your head away if that is what you get off on. Funny how you never saw any of your present hubby's "charm" when you were busy dumping the ex. And funny how you didn't see your ex's charm, when you were wooing #2. It just may be time for you to make a break, and STAY BY YOUR SELF until you know what the score is in life. WE all grow up one day or another, and it sounds as if you are being forced to do that right now. So get off by yourself with your kids and finish the job. Perhaps in a couple of years, you will not be looking back as much as you are looking forward...you are in a dead in "job" right now. Good luck
Reply:Wow, you sound like you have a track record of making the wrong decisions,...doesnt that bother you at all or do you see this?.........regrets?......regrets are ideas you have that keep you from moving on with your life in a successful fashion, if you want to have a great life?.......leave your regrets at your mom and dad's house and walk out into the real world and do something successful, you wont regret it.
Reply:And yet you girls say size doesn't matter.
Reply:We all have one thing in common, we all wish we knew back then what we know now. Don't beat yourself over that, Maybe your ex is the way he is because you let him go and if you had stayed with him he would've been a different person. Maybe if you leave your husband now he changes his ways and become better person for somebody else. Leave them both behind and find somebody who's in the same place you are. Unfortunately this is how life goes.
Reply:Fated?
Reply:Ha Ha - No Honey, your not the only one. You never know, that is why it is all a chance. If I only knew then what I know now?!?!
I do understand, however, for some reason you are where you are ment to be right now. We are not supposed to ask why be I do believe that for whatever its worth! I guess its made you a stronger person. Plus, maybe he wouldn't have been that way with you. You know? Its like we are different with different people? I look at it this way, if I wouldn't have done what I've done, my children wouldn't be the same as they are right now - I wouldn't change them for anything so...... there's your answer!! Good luck.
Reply:You have more things to contimplate on now...think forward-forget about what is now long gone!You're gonna be just fine...
Reply:if we all had a crystal ball, then there would be no need for this site...sorry your situation did not work out. and just so you know, everyone has regrets, whether they want to admit it or not!
Reply:Everything happens for a reason. There's some cosmic reason why you weren't supposed to be with him. Take responsibility for your life. If you're not happy, change things. Everyone deserves to be happy!!! If that means leaving your husband, so be it. Honey, I think it's past time to start putting YOU first! Take the conversation with your x as a wake up call. Best of luck to you!
Reply:Wow, you picked a real winner, eh? Should have thought a little harder before you had kids. Don't try to justify an affair because you are miserable about your choices. You children aren't "choices", and everything you do affects them. Remember that before you do something stupid. Shape up your husband before you jump to your ex. There was obviously some reason that you dumped him. (And it STILL applies even if you don't say what it is)
Reply:Why is it we always let the good men go. Maybe because of the stupidty we have. yes i know exacly what you mean.you need to leave the man your with now and get somone new and someone who want you for more than your body (You live and U learn trust me i kbnow honey!!!!!!!!!!) you cant get him back by=ut you came get your life straight. Stop thinking about what you could have had think about what your going to get. and the phase i wish i know then what i know now. you have to stop saying that you know he was a good man just not for you. god has made somone for everyone. But dont loook for them let them looke for you you just keep ya self looking good.
Reply:Are you for real I'd be long gone if that wasme...you only get one chance of life why live it miserably?
Reply:The grass is always greener....you only know what your ex told you, you don't honestly know that things are that great for him. One of your husband's ex's could run into him and he would tell her that same story. Don't be regretful, but if you really don't like your husband or feel that he isn't working to uphold his part of the marriage, get counseling or get out.
Reply:Focus on NOW and move forward. Regrets and focusing on the past will not create happiness for you.
Pay attention to your marriage. If it is bad... fix it or arrange to get out. Do it with integrity and love.
Then you can move on to another relationship if you choose too.
Reply:i, too, let a keeper go but it was for their wellbeing not for mine. i was screwed up from drinking and drugs and let them go(wife and 2 kids) to a better life. i figured their happiness was more important than my habit. anyway, leave the loser with your kids and get on with your life. if the good lord wants yall to hook-up it'll happen, if not maybe you'll meet someone who's better for you. you'll be away from the dead weight which is good for all of you
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I WISH I WOULD HAVE KNOWN...THEN WHAT I KNOW NOW.....
Im i the only 1 in this situation...(banging my head against the wall)?
Have you ever...(x regrets...) ......read on.....?
never had that problem
Reply:yes i have been in kinda the same situation. I am not with anyone but my ex is. he had drug problems when we were together and things got really bad and we divorced. Now he is with someone else. I have regrets of ltting him go. I have been really depressed over the whole thing and am now seeing a counselor
Reply:no u r not the only one there. lots have regrets about their exs... i would advise you still to try to find good things about your relationship and to stop thinking about what might have been..
Reply:Hm...my ex's are all still losers(bf's included here)...that is why they are ex's.
Sorry that the good one got away.
Reply:oh wow this sounds like a soap opera.... just focus on the positive things you got going on (im sure throught all that you can find at least one) and don't regret, regrets make you weaker and miserable, if you are so unhappy just get out of that relationship, you deserve better. and wish your ex the best. pluis you never know the grass is always greener on the other side, so you don't know how "happy" they are... just start building your own fullfilling life.
Reply:Honey it sounds like you learned that the grass is not greener on the otherside the hard way.If you are not happy in your marraige then why are you still there?Why are you with him if he cheated on you?
Reply:Just remeber and ex is and ex for a reason...
Reply:no........ many ppl also have the same things as u............
Reply:Wow girl. It sounds like you aren't very happy in your situation. Maybe you should examine dropping that extra weight of your husband if he isn't doing his part in the relationship. If you are already doing everything yourself anyway why stay if your aren't happy.
As hard as it is not to dwell on the bad decisions you have made, just know that regardless of how things look EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. I know it sounds crazy but I have learned that it is so true. The things that we go through help to form who we are.
Turn to God and let Him be everything you need. Let Him be your source of happiness and the other stuff will fall into place. You need to provide a loving and stable environment for you and for your precious children. Be thankful for what you have and move on. Don't focus on how happy others appear to be.
Good luck. You will be in my prayers!
Reply:well, they say what's gos around comes around.Now it's too late too look back. You should watch what you wish for because if things would have happened in a different way you would have never had you son. and I'm sure you love him very much, i bet he always puts a smile on your face when you are down. Everything happens for a reason look for all the good things in your life. look for the good things that you love your husband ,not only the bad things. It was not meant ex boyfriend and you to be together, he is happy right now and maybe he found the right person in life.i hope that you let go of the past because it's not good to down your self and your family because of your ex.Just be strong maybe the future has a better life for you and your family.
Reply:Bang your head away if that is what you get off on. Funny how you never saw any of your present hubby's "charm" when you were busy dumping the ex. And funny how you didn't see your ex's charm, when you were wooing #2. It just may be time for you to make a break, and STAY BY YOUR SELF until you know what the score is in life. WE all grow up one day or another, and it sounds as if you are being forced to do that right now. So get off by yourself with your kids and finish the job. Perhaps in a couple of years, you will not be looking back as much as you are looking forward...you are in a dead in "job" right now. Good luck
Reply:Wow, you sound like you have a track record of making the wrong decisions,...doesnt that bother you at all or do you see this?.........regrets?......regrets are ideas you have that keep you from moving on with your life in a successful fashion, if you want to have a great life?.......leave your regrets at your mom and dad's house and walk out into the real world and do something successful, you wont regret it.
Reply:And yet you girls say size doesn't matter.
Reply:We all have one thing in common, we all wish we knew back then what we know now. Don't beat yourself over that, Maybe your ex is the way he is because you let him go and if you had stayed with him he would've been a different person. Maybe if you leave your husband now he changes his ways and become better person for somebody else. Leave them both behind and find somebody who's in the same place you are. Unfortunately this is how life goes.
Reply:Fated?
Reply:Ha Ha - No Honey, your not the only one. You never know, that is why it is all a chance. If I only knew then what I know now?!?!
I do understand, however, for some reason you are where you are ment to be right now. We are not supposed to ask why be I do believe that for whatever its worth! I guess its made you a stronger person. Plus, maybe he wouldn't have been that way with you. You know? Its like we are different with different people? I look at it this way, if I wouldn't have done what I've done, my children wouldn't be the same as they are right now - I wouldn't change them for anything so...... there's your answer!! Good luck.
Reply:You have more things to contimplate on now...think forward-forget about what is now long gone!You're gonna be just fine...
Reply:if we all had a crystal ball, then there would be no need for this site...sorry your situation did not work out. and just so you know, everyone has regrets, whether they want to admit it or not!
Reply:Everything happens for a reason. There's some cosmic reason why you weren't supposed to be with him. Take responsibility for your life. If you're not happy, change things. Everyone deserves to be happy!!! If that means leaving your husband, so be it. Honey, I think it's past time to start putting YOU first! Take the conversation with your x as a wake up call. Best of luck to you!
Reply:Wow, you picked a real winner, eh? Should have thought a little harder before you had kids. Don't try to justify an affair because you are miserable about your choices. You children aren't "choices", and everything you do affects them. Remember that before you do something stupid. Shape up your husband before you jump to your ex. There was obviously some reason that you dumped him. (And it STILL applies even if you don't say what it is)
Reply:Why is it we always let the good men go. Maybe because of the stupidty we have. yes i know exacly what you mean.you need to leave the man your with now and get somone new and someone who want you for more than your body (You live and U learn trust me i kbnow honey!!!!!!!!!!) you cant get him back by=ut you came get your life straight. Stop thinking about what you could have had think about what your going to get. and the phase i wish i know then what i know now. you have to stop saying that you know he was a good man just not for you. god has made somone for everyone. But dont loook for them let them looke for you you just keep ya self looking good.
Reply:Are you for real I'd be long gone if that wasme...you only get one chance of life why live it miserably?
Reply:The grass is always greener....you only know what your ex told you, you don't honestly know that things are that great for him. One of your husband's ex's could run into him and he would tell her that same story. Don't be regretful, but if you really don't like your husband or feel that he isn't working to uphold his part of the marriage, get counseling or get out.
Reply:Focus on NOW and move forward. Regrets and focusing on the past will not create happiness for you.
Pay attention to your marriage. If it is bad... fix it or arrange to get out. Do it with integrity and love.
Then you can move on to another relationship if you choose too.
Reply:i, too, let a keeper go but it was for their wellbeing not for mine. i was screwed up from drinking and drugs and let them go(wife and 2 kids) to a better life. i figured their happiness was more important than my habit. anyway, leave the loser with your kids and get on with your life. if the good lord wants yall to hook-up it'll happen, if not maybe you'll meet someone who's better for you. you'll be away from the dead weight which is good for all of you
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This is a bit odd. Your thoughts please?
So I have a sister who is in her mid twenties, and I'm almost 18. And for a while now she's been acting interested in me, but she also treats me angrily every time she can. For example pushing me in a chair up against the wall. What has been weirding me out is that she copies me and stares at me when I'm sunbathing and then comments on my body. A few examples of how she copies me are by peaking over my shoulder and looking at what I'm making to eat and then eating the same thing I am. And I bought new flip flops and she went back to the store and bought the same kind I did for herself. She spies on the music I listen to and then plays it out loud and dances to it. When I get out of the shower and smell like shampoo and whatever else and I walk past her she breathes in deeply with a look of enjoyment on her face like you would when smelling a flower. Those are just some examples but I'm getting creeped out. Do you think she's doing this just to mess with my head? Thank you for reading.
This is a bit odd. Your thoughts please?
maybe she is doing it to mess with your head and if she is its working lol.
brothers and sisters are just born to give each other hard times..
i say forget it its the weekend enjoy it.
Reply:It sounds like she wants to BE you. Perhaps just act a bit cold and try to get her to back off. I'd also tell your parents that you're worried about her. Maybe don't go into details, but just say she's acting strangely. Just flag it, in case it's something upsetting her, making her want to focus on someone else so much.
brrr...
Reply:This could be a funny situation if you wanted it to be. she is successfully creeping you out, so do what she is doing to you, but on her. Then she will get creeped out, if she says something ay to her that she has been doing it to you as well. Maybe then you will find what her problem is.
Good Luck
James
Reply:well you kinda awnsered your own question
you said you feel creeped out, and thats when you gotta talk to her
she might just be messing around
but if its making your uncomfortable you need to talk to her.
she could be lesiban or bi tho but i dont know why she would do those thigns to her own sister
but who knows
Reply:I think that she is really into you.She copies you because she really likes what you do.If it bothers you just tell her and she will stop.
Reply:She might look up to you but she is doing it in a wrong and unhealthy way.
Reply:she's feeling insecure and she is just pushing your buttons
Reply:I think she likes your tastes in fashion....
Reply:sounds like shes losing herself...
Reply:probablyy.
i weird my little sister out on purpose sometimes too.
just ask her =]
Reply:ask her and sort out the prob.ya but in sis this happens a lot
Reply:is she blood related? do you know if shes lesbian?
Reply:I don't really know what to say. I would find it hard that any sibling would allow themselves to be interesting in their sister/brother. As such, I would hesitate to say that she is interested in you in such a way that should make you uncomfortable; instead, I feel it is more likely that she is just interested into you as a sister and nothing more. She might just be trying to get more involved in your life. I don't know.
Though the only way to let her know of your discomfort will be to tell/ask her about all this copying etc. I wouldn't get worried though.
Reply:Yes, um, that's all a little weird. My youngest sister is 6 and likes to copy me, but she's also little. Yesterday, she threw a fit when I told her she couldn't come to the movies with my boyfriend and I. I felt bad later and bought her ice cream, but this is obviously different.
Maybe she's doing it to be annoying, but I would confront her the next time something like that happens. That's really weird. Try asking your mom or something if she has noticed anything, and ask her opinion on it.
Reply:I really think that she looks up to you. I had a friend that we were friends the day after i was born and she is 4 years older than me and she used to be the most popular girl in school. If she was listening to some really good song I would go home and ask my mom to go to the store and buy the CD. All of her friends would make fun of me because I was younger and not the coolest kid around. I really think it is her way of saying she cares about you and really wants to be like you.
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This is a bit odd. Your thoughts please?
maybe she is doing it to mess with your head and if she is its working lol.
brothers and sisters are just born to give each other hard times..
i say forget it its the weekend enjoy it.
Reply:It sounds like she wants to BE you. Perhaps just act a bit cold and try to get her to back off. I'd also tell your parents that you're worried about her. Maybe don't go into details, but just say she's acting strangely. Just flag it, in case it's something upsetting her, making her want to focus on someone else so much.
brrr...
Reply:This could be a funny situation if you wanted it to be. she is successfully creeping you out, so do what she is doing to you, but on her. Then she will get creeped out, if she says something ay to her that she has been doing it to you as well. Maybe then you will find what her problem is.
Good Luck
James
Reply:well you kinda awnsered your own question
you said you feel creeped out, and thats when you gotta talk to her
she might just be messing around
but if its making your uncomfortable you need to talk to her.
she could be lesiban or bi tho but i dont know why she would do those thigns to her own sister
but who knows
Reply:I think that she is really into you.She copies you because she really likes what you do.If it bothers you just tell her and she will stop.
Reply:She might look up to you but she is doing it in a wrong and unhealthy way.
Reply:she's feeling insecure and she is just pushing your buttons
Reply:I think she likes your tastes in fashion....
Reply:sounds like shes losing herself...
Reply:probablyy.
i weird my little sister out on purpose sometimes too.
just ask her =]
Reply:ask her and sort out the prob.ya but in sis this happens a lot
Reply:is she blood related? do you know if shes lesbian?
Reply:I don't really know what to say. I would find it hard that any sibling would allow themselves to be interesting in their sister/brother. As such, I would hesitate to say that she is interested in you in such a way that should make you uncomfortable; instead, I feel it is more likely that she is just interested into you as a sister and nothing more. She might just be trying to get more involved in your life. I don't know.
Though the only way to let her know of your discomfort will be to tell/ask her about all this copying etc. I wouldn't get worried though.
Reply:Yes, um, that's all a little weird. My youngest sister is 6 and likes to copy me, but she's also little. Yesterday, she threw a fit when I told her she couldn't come to the movies with my boyfriend and I. I felt bad later and bought her ice cream, but this is obviously different.
Maybe she's doing it to be annoying, but I would confront her the next time something like that happens. That's really weird. Try asking your mom or something if she has noticed anything, and ask her opinion on it.
Reply:I really think that she looks up to you. I had a friend that we were friends the day after i was born and she is 4 years older than me and she used to be the most popular girl in school. If she was listening to some really good song I would go home and ask my mom to go to the store and buy the CD. All of her friends would make fun of me because I was younger and not the coolest kid around. I really think it is her way of saying she cares about you and really wants to be like you.
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