This is a bit odd. Your thoughts please?

So I have a sister who is in her mid twenties, and I'm almost 18. And for a while now she's been acting interested in me, but she also treats me angrily every time she can. For example pushing me in a chair up against the wall. What has been weirding me out is that she copies me and stares at me when I'm sunbathing and then comments on my body. A few examples of how she copies me are by peaking over my shoulder and looking at what I'm making to eat and then eating the same thing I am. And I bought new flip flops and she went back to the store and bought the same kind I did for herself. She spies on the music I listen to and then plays it out loud and dances to it. When I get out of the shower and smell like shampoo and whatever else and I walk past her she breathes in deeply with a look of enjoyment on her face like you would when smelling a flower. Those are just some examples but I'm getting creeped out. Do you think she's doing this just to mess with my head? Thank you for reading.

This is a bit odd. Your thoughts please?
maybe she is doing it to mess with your head and if she is its working lol.


brothers and sisters are just born to give each other hard times..


i say forget it its the weekend enjoy it.
Reply:It sounds like she wants to BE you. Perhaps just act a bit cold and try to get her to back off. I'd also tell your parents that you're worried about her. Maybe don't go into details, but just say she's acting strangely. Just flag it, in case it's something upsetting her, making her want to focus on someone else so much.


brrr...
Reply:This could be a funny situation if you wanted it to be. she is successfully creeping you out, so do what she is doing to you, but on her. Then she will get creeped out, if she says something ay to her that she has been doing it to you as well. Maybe then you will find what her problem is.





Good Luck





James
Reply:well you kinda awnsered your own question


you said you feel creeped out, and thats when you gotta talk to her


she might just be messing around





but if its making your uncomfortable you need to talk to her.





she could be lesiban or bi tho but i dont know why she would do those thigns to her own sister


but who knows
Reply:I think that she is really into you.She copies you because she really likes what you do.If it bothers you just tell her and she will stop.
Reply:She might look up to you but she is doing it in a wrong and unhealthy way.
Reply:she's feeling insecure and she is just pushing your buttons
Reply:I think she likes your tastes in fashion....
Reply:sounds like shes losing herself...
Reply:probablyy.


i weird my little sister out on purpose sometimes too.


just ask her =]
Reply:ask her and sort out the prob.ya but in sis this happens a lot
Reply:is she blood related? do you know if shes lesbian?
Reply:I don't really know what to say. I would find it hard that any sibling would allow themselves to be interesting in their sister/brother. As such, I would hesitate to say that she is interested in you in such a way that should make you uncomfortable; instead, I feel it is more likely that she is just interested into you as a sister and nothing more. She might just be trying to get more involved in your life. I don't know.





Though the only way to let her know of your discomfort will be to tell/ask her about all this copying etc. I wouldn't get worried though.
Reply:Yes, um, that's all a little weird. My youngest sister is 6 and likes to copy me, but she's also little. Yesterday, she threw a fit when I told her she couldn't come to the movies with my boyfriend and I. I felt bad later and bought her ice cream, but this is obviously different.





Maybe she's doing it to be annoying, but I would confront her the next time something like that happens. That's really weird. Try asking your mom or something if she has noticed anything, and ask her opinion on it.
Reply:I really think that she looks up to you. I had a friend that we were friends the day after i was born and she is 4 years older than me and she used to be the most popular girl in school. If she was listening to some really good song I would go home and ask my mom to go to the store and buy the CD. All of her friends would make fun of me because I was younger and not the coolest kid around. I really think it is her way of saying she cares about you and really wants to be like you.





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